At age 4 Ethan joined the Little Dragons program. The instructors asked him if we wanted to earn a black belt. Of course he said yes but back then I don’t think he realized exactly what that meant. In February of 2009 Ethan made the decision to join the black belt club. This meant he was making a 3 year commitment to karate and at the end of those 3 years he would be eligible to test for his black belt IF he put in the time and hard work. On Saturday May 12, 2012 Ethan reached his goal! It was an amazing day. I was filled with so many emotions as I watched my son receive his black belt.
In March Ethan begin the Black belt training regimen. He was a black belt candidate but there was still lots of work to be done. This would be the most challenging part of his martial arts career. Ethan was required to attend conditioning sessions every Saturday for 90 minutes until the day of the test. The conditioning sessions included running, push-ups, and sit-ups in addition to the curriculum. Each week the instructors were looking for improvements in their technique and overall level of endurance. On May 5th we found out that Ethan was invited to the test.
The black belt test consisted of three parts: Conditioning and Endurance, Curriculum, and Essay questions. The conditioning and endurance portion started at 5:30 am. Ethan had no idea how early that was. When we woke him up he was surprised it was still dark. He was moving a little slow and I had to force him to eat something. But by the time we arrived at ABK he was ready to go. No spectators were allowed during this portion of the test. I was a nervous wreck. Would he be able to do enough push ups? Would he run a fast enough mile? Would he give up? Why was I so worried? Deep down inside I knew that Ethan was prepared. Really he had been training for this day since he began martial arts. He had wonderful instructors who would not let him be here if he was not ready. But as a mother I still worried. Of course when we picked him up he was fine. As a matter of fact I was surprised at how much he was still smiling. He was released to go home, but we had to be back by 12 pm. On the drive home we asked Ethan about the conditioning. He didn’t give much information. All I know is that they went to 3 locations, running was involved and he was sweating. Ha ha!
Prior to the test each candidate was required to answer 6 essay questions. The essay questions had to be typed on a separate sheet of paper with a minimum of 1/2 page answer. This was no easy task for an 8-year-old since he has not done much typing. He wrote his rough draft on paper and was shocked at how short it looked once typed on the computer. He was very excited when they were all finished and he could turn them in.
Then next part of the test was curriculum. This is where they had an opportunity to showcase their skills. The curriculum included Palgue 7, Chungmu, Staff, Sai, Kama, Self-Defense 7-12, One Steps 7-12, and kicking combinations 7-11, sparring, and board breaking. After the presentation of all the curriculum each candidate read one of their essays. Then it was time for the graduation ceremony.
I have watched Ethan receive many other color belts. Each of those times I was really proud of him but that did not prepare me for the emotions I would feel watching him receive his black belt. Not going to lie, I shed a few tears. He looked so grown up to me once they tied that black belt around his waist. Truth is he has grown up. 4 years ago he had a hard time focusing. He didn’t know what he wanted to do and like all boys he had a ton of energy. Now Ethan is a leader, he sets goals, and encourages his younger sibling and has more confidence. I am so thankful we made enrolled him in karate. It requires a big commitment and takes up a lot of our time. But I would do it all again. The end result is worth it.
Before I post the pictures I thought I would share one of Ethan’s essays questions:
Do you view martial arts the same as you did when you began?
I do not view martial arts the same as when I first began, because when I started I didn’t work hard as I do now. I thought martial arts were about kicks and punches but then I learned martial arts are about discipline, life, and self-defense. I never thought about being the example when I was younger, but now I try to set the example with everything that I do. When I started martial arts I never thought about the next move or about stances then I started thinking about my stances and moves when I became a yellow-one belt.
Martial arts have pushed me to do more than I ever thought possible and be stronger both physically and mentally. It helps me set goals and stay focused to accomplish my goals. It also makes me try harder than before because I have more confidence. It helps me to always stay on track and helps me want to learn more and try new things. In the beginning I thought it was going to be easy but now I realize it takes discipline, lots of practice, and hard work.
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